门当户对KYM?

[Tangerine]

Olden times have matchmakers.
90s we have SDU, SDS. 2000s, we have lunch actually.
Why is it so hard to find partner/ in laws that are now compatible with same SES ?

 

[Aunt Dino]

Olden times have matchmakers.
90s we have SDU, SDS. 2000s, we have lunch actually.
Why is it so hard to find partner/ in laws that are now compatible with same SES ?

When you say same SES, do you mean same both family backgrounds are on the same level financially? I think it has always been difficult to find someone of a similar SES if everyone else you know is of a different SES from you.

In the olden days, people were less choosy . Arranged marriages. Parents intro, can get along, then marry. Some is marry for business reasons. Nowadays cannot like that lah. Not so simple haha.

 

[Tangerine]

When you say same SES, do you mean same both family backgrounds are on the same level financially? I think it has always been difficult to find someone of a similar SES if everyone else you know is of a different SES from you.

In the olden days, people were less choosy . Arranged marriages. Parents intro, can get along, then marry. Some is marry for business reasons. Nowadays cannot like that lah. Not so simple haha.

Need same SES. In olden days, there are matchmakers, in fact it is easier. SDS & SDU & lunch actually worked too.
Now youngsters how to find? I worry for mine. Too many cooped up in the room playing computer games.