I'm not a ladies, but if I might say...
Marriage isn’t the scam! Fairy tale expectations are.
Love isn’t always poetry and passion; sometimes, it’s patience, sacrifice, and choosing the same person even when the spark flickers. If you go in thinking it’s all romance, then yes, disillusionment hits hard. But if you see love as a journey, not a destination, maybe...just maybe... it’s worth the risk.