Tangerine
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Some days can find happiness, some days are bad.
No one is alike, not even twins. It is really hard to living together all the time.
After 10yrs, most of the time live & stay together for the young one. Love faded and avoid reality checks.
There is still care and concern for each other but the effort to keep the relationship going had been greatly reduced..
Perhaps it is better to get married and after together for many years and when love weaned down, each has own space and time
for oneself and meet once a week. It might just rekindle the love and appreciation to keep going the marriage.
Some days can find happiness, some days are bad.
No one is alike, not even twins. It is really hard to living together all the time.
After 10yrs, most of the time live & stay together for the young one. Love faded and avoid reality checks.
There is still care and concern for each other but the effort to keep the relationship going had been greatly reduced..
Perhaps it is better to get married and after together for many years and when love weaned down, each has own space and time
for oneself and meet once a week. It might just rekindle the love and appreciation to keep going the marriage.
It is sad, that a marriage has to come to this
1. did you have kids, and is this the reason?
2. if not kids, why did it become such?
Tangerine
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Kid can add love or strain relationship. Go try being married for years and see is yours any different.
Sg living is not exactly conducive for marriage and raising family unless you can stay in Richout and hire helpers.
Then no more daily struggles in early years to pay off housing huge debt and too busy or too tired to wine and dine frequently.
Married 12 years liao, two kids. Got ups and downs, but overall, happy lah
Marriage is like investing must think long-term. Got to manage expectations, communicate, and don’t sweat the small stuff. Kids? They change everything, so both must be ready to be a team. Most important: choose the right partner before saying “I do.” After that, just tahan and grow together.