Do looks matter in a relationship?

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It’s something a lot of people think about. While attraction can play a part at first, most would say that things like trust, respect, and common values are what really make a relationship last. Looks might grab your attention, but it’s the deeper connection that makes it strong. What do you think? Are looks important, or is there more to it?
 
I think it's important, because the first thing we'll see of someone is their appearance. But that doesn't mean that by looking good, we will ignore the person's attitude..
 
If it doesn't matter, I'll already get a girlfriend for myself la
 
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The order of importance is always as follow:

1)Money
2)Looks
3)Character
 
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It depends. But mostly yes.

Anyone with working vision WILL subconsciously judge from looks even if they say they 'don't judge book from the cover'
 
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Yes, looks matter a lot in a relationship.
 
they do play a role, especially in the beginning. Physical attraction is kinda natural, and it's what draws us to someone initially. Over time, it's more about how you connect with each other on a deeper level.

So, while looks might get you noticed, it's the other stuff that really matters in the long run
 
Sure. Do you think there's a way to make it work if the physical attraction isn't there from the start?
 
Looks ain't everything. Money talks louder. A fat bank account is way more important than a pretty face 🤣🤣
 
Yes and no. If he treats me well, I can overlook his looks, but I would find it difficult to engage in any form of intimacy with him 😅
 
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