Girl constantly flirting with me, but she already has a partner

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There's this girl I know who keeps flirting with me, playful touches, and late-night chats.

The thing is, she already has a boyfriend. I don’t want to be the reason for any drama, but at the same time, it’s confusing.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? What would you do

And also I'm not going to date anyone who already has a partner.
 
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I used to be in your position, but I was just ignoring her and now I'm regretting that.

Maybe if there is an alternative version of me, maybe that person will do this something right.

If you know what I mean.
 
She could be a flirty person. Some people are like that even when they are in a relationship, it doesn't necessarily mean she wants to cheat.

You could try talking to her about it, just be casual.
Just tell her that you don't want to make it weird with her boyfriend.
 
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snowy2000 said:
She could be a flirty person. Some people are like that even when they are in a relationship, it doesn't necessarily mean she wants to cheat.

You could try talking to her about it, just be casual.
Just tell her that you don't want to make it weird with her boyfriend.
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Makes sense. Some girls just crave extra attention.
 
This is the same reason as why some people keep sending out resumes even though they have no immediate intention to quit their job.

They just want to test their own market value and also have bargaining chips to negotiate with current employer.

So the girl prob just want to test her own market value/ attractiveness and also make her BF worry & treat her better
 
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snowy2000 said:
She could be a flirty person. Some people are like that even when they are in a relationship, it doesn't necessarily mean she wants to cheat.

You could try talking to her about it, just be casual.
Just tell her that you don't want to make it weird with her boyfriend.
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Can relate much. I'd sayI'm not lucky enuf @ relationship, but at least I hv some dignity and won't steal others. Lol.
 
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This is the same reason as why some people keep sending out resumes even though they have no immediate intention to quit their job.

They just want to test their own market value and also have bargaining chips to negotiate with current employer.

So the girl prob just want to test her own market value/ attractiveness and also make her BF worry & treat her better
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Really reminds me of LinkedIn. Company put a job listing not because they needed it because they want their employees to be on check. Basically saying:

"NO funny business, else, we replace you"
 
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duriandude said:
There's this girl I know who keeps flirting with me, playful touches, and late-night chats.

The thing is, she already has a boyfriend. I don’t want to be the reason for any drama, but at the same time, it’s confusing.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? What would you do

And also I'm not going to date anyone who already has a partner.
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Experience same case too.
I'm wondering why. But some people said good guy got nothing. Starts to thinking if I have to be the bad guy here 🤔
 
duriandude said:
There's this girl I know who keeps flirting with me, playful touches, and late-night chats.

The thing is, she already has a boyfriend. I don’t want to be the reason for any drama, but at the same time, it’s confusing.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? What would you do

And also I'm not going to date anyone who already has a partner.
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what goes around come around. one day you in relation with her, she will also do the same shit again.
 
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