Advice for woman who plan to married

[Hui19]

Okay ladies, so now you're ready to settle down and marry the love of your life. As a woman myself, here's some advice that you might take notes, and it's not just about choosing a right wedding dress or memorable venue. It's more important for a long terms marriage life:
GO GET SOME PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT.

Especially if you have a lot of assets even before married.

Some people said that prenup is a "coward" or "paranoid" moves. But it's always better safe than sorry. By having a prenup agreement, you can keep your own property and keep continue your life just in case your spouse cheating or involved in a monetary problems that caused by their own mistakes.

Being in love is great, but don't forget to keep your head above the water

 

[sinkie886]

Okay ladies, so now you're ready to settle down and marry the love of your life. As a woman myself, here's some advice that you might take notes, and it's not just about choosing a right wedding dress or memorable venue. It's more important for a long terms marriage life:
GO GET SOME PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT.

Especially if you have a lot of assets even before married.

Some people said that prenup is a "coward" or "paranoid" moves. But it's always better safe than sorry. By having a prenup agreement, you can keep your own property and keep continue your life just in case your spouse cheating or involved in a monetary problems that caused by their own mistakes.

Being in love is great, but don't forget to keep your head above the water

Good point sia. Nice to see more and more women know their worth and be financially independent. I also gonna teach my daughter the same.

 

[sick_and_tired]

Okay ladies, so now you're ready to settle down and marry the love of your life. As a woman myself, here's some advice that you might take notes, and it's not just about choosing a right wedding dress or memorable venue. It's more important for a long terms marriage life:
GO GET SOME PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT.

Especially if you have a lot of assets even before married.

Some people said that prenup is a "coward" or "paranoid" moves. But it's always better safe than sorry. By having a prenup agreement, you can keep your own property and keep continue your life just in case your spouse cheating or involved in a monetary problems that caused by their own mistakes.

Being in love is great, but don't forget to keep your head above the water

Great speech. But is it okay if a man asking for a prenup agreement? Wdyt? AFAIK, prenup ideas comes from woman side. Starts to wondering whether marriage is a safe decision for a man or not...

 

[Philipkee]

Great speech. But is it okay if a man asking for a prenup agreement? Wdyt? AFAIK, prenup ideas comes from woman side. Starts to wondering whether marriage is a safe decision for a man or not...

Iirc pre nup agreements are not recognised in Singapore

 

[glarerder]

Great speech. But is it okay if a man asking for a prenup agreement? Wdyt? AFAIK, prenup ideas comes from woman side. Starts to wondering whether marriage is a safe decision for a man or not...

Why would you seek society consent for self protection? Even if you follow the majority, if your marriage led to divorce, no one is going to give you money for your lost assets. They'd simply say wife you chose yourself.

 

[Philipkee]

Why would you seek society consent for self protection? Even if you follow the majority, if your marriage led to divorce, no one is going to give you money for your lost assets. They'd simply say wife you chose yourself.

It’s human behaviour to seek approval from society for one’s actions

The only difference is whose approval are you seeking from. Some want from society at large so that is why Facebook likes are so important. Some from family and some from friends

It’s not common for someone to publicly choose a course of action that the people who matter disapprove of. Of cos I say publicly choose a course of action. If you do it quietly it’s another issue

 

[nozart]

My advice for woman getting married is stop being overly suspicious about your partner's activity and circle of friends. Stop checking his phone, his wallet, and his spending. He is your partner for life now. If it doesn't work, then make it work.

Sorry for the rant.

 

[apple381]

Okay ladies, so now you're ready to settle down and marry the love of your life. As a woman myself, here's some advice that you might take notes, and it's not just about choosing a right wedding dress or memorable venue. It's more important for a long terms marriage life:
GO GET SOME PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT.

Especially if you have a lot of assets even before married.

Some people said that prenup is a "coward" or "paranoid" moves. But it's always better safe than sorry. By having a prenup agreement, you can keep your own property and keep continue your life just in case your spouse cheating or involved in a monetary problems that caused by their own mistakes.

Being in love is great, but don't forget to keep your head above the water

I don't have prenup, but it's no matter because what matter most is my sanity. I just want to be separated because mentally tired already. When you fed up with a relationship, you have no energy to complicate things.

 

[Hui19]

I don't have prenup, but it's no matter because what matter most is my sanity. I just want to be separated because mentally tired already. When you fed up with a relationship, you have no energy to complicate things.

Totally get it. When you’re mentally drained, the last thing you want is more drama. But just because you don’t have a prenup doesn’t mean you shouldn’t protect yourself.

Keep things simple? yes! but make sure you’re not walking away with nothing, especially if assets or finances are involved. A clean break is good, but a smart one is better. Take care of yourself

 

[chimera]

Iirc pre nup agreements are not recognised in Singapore

That's what I thought too? It will be override by women's charter regardless, no?

 

[Philipkee]

That's what I thought too? It will be override by women's charter regardless, no?

Yes. It will be an advantage if it’s not contested but if contested then all bets are off