Dating is difficult for IT guy 🤯

[KeyboardWarrior]

Hi y'all, just wanna share my story.
As I reach my 30's, I just realized that it's time to looking for potential partner. The problem is, being an IT guy made me often misunderstood with woman, like... It's easier to talk with machine than with them. At least, programs comes with guidance while woman are more unpredictable.

Is it possible for me to find a spouse? What should I do?

 

[strange188]

I think code is also unpredictable. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it crashes the entire production server.

Nobody knows.

 

[Apparatus]

I think code is also unpredictable. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it crashes the entire production server.

Nobody knows.

While I'm agree with you, but I also get the point. In coding, we can do the beta test for debugging and found the problem before launching the full version. While in relationships, we met a human with a various personality, sometimes there's only one chance to prove yourself, if you failed, no other chances.

 

[yperic]

Hi y'all, just wanna share my story.
As I reach my 30's, I just realized that it's time to looking for potential partner. The problem is, being an IT guy made me often misunderstood with woman, like... It's easier to talk with machine than with them. At least, programs comes with guidance while woman are more unpredictable.

Is it possible for me to find a spouse? What should I do?

I get what you mean. As a fellow IT guy, logic and structure come naturally to us, but relationships don’t follow an if-else flow. That said, it’s absolutely possible to find a compatible spouse! Just requires a different approach than debugging code.

Start by improving communication, not just in what you say but how you listen. Women (or any partner, really) value emotional connection over just solutions. Treat conversations like understanding a new framework: observe, adapt, and be patient.

Also, don’t overanalyze. Not everything needs optimization! Sometimes, just being present is enough. You gotthis

 

[HoChing]

Good thread. Ho ching approves.

 

[BioHealing]

As you are an expert in IT, I think a robotic female doll would suit you better, "she" will be very obedient, obey all your orders.

 

[Aunt Dino]

Hi y'all, just wanna share my story.
As I reach my 30's, I just realized that it's time to looking for potential partner. The problem is, being an IT guy made me often misunderstood with woman, like... It's easier to talk with machine than with them. At least, programs comes with guidance while woman are more unpredictable.

Is it possible for me to find a spouse? What should I do?

You need to socialise more with the opposite gender. Join activity groups, meet up groups and events. Most IT guys I know are married or attached by 30.