I wonder can differences in how partners use social media cause conflict, or do they reflect a healthy sense of independence?
We can't expect the same amount of others perspective here, but we can find the solution by communication. Currently dating a man who almost have zero socmed appearance, while I'm an avid IG user. At first, I feel angry when he never post about me, I tell him how I feel. He explains that quality IRL is much important than socmed post. He prove his point and now I feel contented.
whyareyougae
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Most likely, as far as I know, social media of your choice affects your personality. For example:
- LinkedIn: Overly professional
- Twitter: Loves to debate
- TikTok: Gay
- LinkedIn: Overly professional
- Twitter: Loves to debate
- TikTok: Gay
Feels attacked in how you describe Tiktok user, but it's undeniable somehow
I get ur point. TBH, I love to watch cute boy dancing on Tiktok, but to date one of them? Nope at all. My type is more like a gentleman one who have a very sheer social media appearance
It has some potential to bring a conflict, so I think we need to set some boundaries. Is it okay if your man follows a sexy influencers? If you don't feel it okay, tell him. But you should be fair too, you aren't allowed to follow a random hot guy account.
It's tiring to have a relationship with someone who can't respect your boundaries.
I got you, sistFeels attacked in how you describe Tiktok user, but it's undeniable somehow
I get ur point. TBH, I love to watch cute boy dancing on Tiktok, but to date one of them? Nope at all. My type is more like a gentleman one who have a very sheer social media appearance
what we enjoy watching and what we want in a partner can be totally different. Social media just shows a curated side of people anyway. A guy who’s low-key online but solid in real life? That’s a green flag. At the end of the day, it’s about how he carries himself, not how often he posts.