Wish to go back in time

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I once met a girl during my school years. During lunch, she always choose to sit next to me even though she barely say anything and mostly just talk with her friends.

But I find it unique since I'm a lone person and no body would choose sit next to me like that. I wish I could go back in time and had a conversation with her. I wish I wasn't shy when I was a teenager.
 
We all have been there. Too shy and missed an opportunity.

I think it's nice that you're reflecting on those moments. Maybe you can use that experience to be more confident now. You never know, you might meet someone new and have a great conversation.
 
Sounds like that girl mighta been into you. Sitting next to you every day even tho you didn't talk much? That's a sign for sure.

It's easy to look back and wish we did things different.

Maybe you could try reaching out to her on social media if you still remember her name. Never know, she might be happy to hear from you after all this time. Worth a shot!
 
Sounds like that girl mighta been into you. Sitting next to you every day even tho you didn't talk much? That's a sign for sure.

It's easy to look back and wish we did things different.

Maybe you could try reaching out to her on social media if you still remember her name. Never know, she might be happy to hear from you after all this time. Worth a shot!
Given that he was a shy person, I don't think he knows her name.
 
There is no point of having a regret. Since someone actually trying to get close to you, that's a good sign that she finds you attractive. Go out and you will find your second chance.
 
I get where you're coming from, but maybe you're reading too much into it? Girls sit next to people for all kinds of reasons. Could be she just liked that spot or her friends were nearby. Don't beat yourself up about being shy back then. Most teens are awkward af. It's normal. But honestly, it's probably not worth dwelling on.
 
Stop living in the past. That girl's long gone. You need to move on and grow up. Don't waste time wishing for do-overs. Life's too short for that crap. Make the most of now instead.